Sup.

I go by a lot of different names but I like Owen the best. You might also know me as Laina, and that's fine too. No Biggie Smalls.

I'm a 24 year old dyke working for a historical library. I write, doodle, and help my girlfriend with her webcomic. I think Ed Helms is a beautiful creature and hope someday to own and showcase a wardrobe as delightful as his.

Here's some stuff I like.

But how will my son know he’s a boy unless he learns all the ways he’s different from a girl?” and vice versa. “

But my daughter might turn out masculine if we don’t teach her to be feminine.” and vice versa.

In a society that favors either/or simplifications, such concerns make sense. But stop and think for a moment and they become suspect: Why do sex differences alone inspire such paranoia? Parents show absolutely no concern about teaching children about everything else they’re different from. No one asks, “How will my son know he’s different from a dog, or my daughter know she’s a person, not a houseplant?” No one worries that without intervention children might think they are chairs.

Growing Up Free: Raising Your Child in the 80s by Letty Cottin Pogrebin

Submitted by queer14

(via lgbtlaughs)